This scripture brings a lot of controversy with some Christians. For some reason we seem to think that the word “stupid” is a harsher word than “foolish”. Yet when you look at the definition of both , they literary mean the same thing.
“A parent is worn to a frazzle by a stupid child; a nagging spouse is a leaky faucet.” (Prov. 19:13 MSG)

“A foolish son is the calamity of his father: and the contentions of a wife are a continual dropping.” (Prov. 19:13 KJV)
We have to get over our selves and realize that the WORD is not always going to say kind politically correct things. It’s designed to bring us to a higher place not enable us. If we look at the synonyms of this word in our culture, it could have said it a lot worst. We have to stop being so trivial as believers and accept the fact that love at times comes with words hard to digest. #HeartCheckTime