This post is going to be a bit uncomfortable and thought provoking…


People often assume that my lack of words means I’m shy or afraid to speak up. The truth is I learned something valuable from one of the wisest people I knew. Dr. Marcus taught me this:

“When in a room, listen, observe, it will tell you more about who you’re dealing with than any words they can say. Allow the Holy Spirit the time to reveal to you the intentions of the heart. That my daughter is how you exercise decrement.”

He share many more words of wisdom that day. But since this day, I’ve practice what I learned. Talk less, listen and observe more. I have to say he was right.